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Funeral Information.

Creating a Meaningful Service.

Funerals have been a vital part of the farewell process for centuries. Whether you're organizing a traditional or unique ceremony, it's crucial to grasp the components that make a funeral meaningful. Each element serves a distinct purpose and holds significant value in the overall ceremony. By skillfully combining these elements, you can create a truly deserving tribute to the extraordinary life that was lived.

One of the purposes of music is to help us assess our feelings, both happy and sad.

During the funeral ceremony, music helps us think about our loss and embrace our painful feelings of grief. Music is an important part of many social rituals.


Choosing Music for the Service: Consider music that was meaningful to the person who died or to your family.


Music Services are Typically Available at the Funeral Home: Most funeral homes and many churches and other places of worship have the capability to play CDs or music from iPods. Make sure to check out the quality of the sound system.


Arranging for Live Music: If you’d like to have live singers or musicians, your funeral director or clergy person can help you contact and schedule them. Most funeral homes and churches will have their own organist or pianist.

Symbols say for us what we could not possibly say in words at this time.

When words are inadequate, ritual and the presence of symbols like flowers, food, candles and even the body of the person who has died, help us express our thoughts and feelings.


Examples of Symbols Include:


Flowers: Flowers represent love and beauty. Accepting flowers from friends is a way of accepting their support.


Food: Friends bring food as a way of nurturing mourners and demonstrating their support.


Candles: The flame of a candle represents the spirit. For some, it also represents life’s continuation beyond death.


The Body: Whether present in an open or unopened casket, the body of the person who has died serves as a focus for mourners and helps them acknowledge and embrace their pain.

Memories are the most precious legacy we have after someone we love dies.

Memories, cherished and invaluable, are the enduring gift left behind by our loved ones when they depart. To extend the scope of remembrance beyond the eulogy, your family can explore avenues for sharing these cherished recollections. It is a known truth that not everyone feels at ease speaking before a gathering. By embracing memories, those who have passed away find a way to persistently reside within us.

Memory Baskets

Offer a designated time and location during the visitation or funeral service where individuals can pen their cherished memories on paper and delicately place them into a memory basket. A selection of these heartfelt recollections can be shared during the eulogy or displayed on a board for others to peruse.

Memory DVDs

Certain funeral homes provide memory DVDs that combine visual images with music. There is an increasing selection of companies available that offer this valuable service, including user-friendly websites that assist you in creating your very own personalized video. For more information, kindly inquire with your funeral director.

Memory Letters

Certain friends and family members may feel inclined to draft a heartfelt letter addressed to the departed individual. These personal messages can then be securely sealed and either interred within the casket or exhibited in close proximity for other mourners to peruse.

Memory Tables or Memory Boards

Numerous funeral homes provide tables or boards where families can exhibit cherished memorabilia and photographs. If the deceased had a beloved pastime, it's worth considering arranging a display that reflects this passion, such as showcasing model trains, photographs of their beautiful garden, or their fishing gear. Additionally, physical items that serve as a connection between mourners and the departed can be exhibited, such as significant clothing articles or treasured toys for a child. Furthermore, displaying family photo albums and framed pictures can add a personal touch. These memory tables offer a welcoming space for mourners to gather and reminisce about the individual who has passed away.

Recording The Service

Numerous funeral homes are equipped with the necessary tools to professionally record funeral ceremonies, be it through video or audio. A growing number of families have come to realize the value of immortalizing these moments, as it provides them with the opportunity to revisit and reflect upon them during their healing process, when they are better equipped to handle their emotions. These recordings often become treasured mementos within the family, and can also be duplicated for loved ones who were unable to attend the service.



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